Top 5 Beauty Tips For A More Youthful look With Hollywood Makeup Artist, Michelle Spieler

EPISODE 8


Michelle Spieler
Michelle Spieler

My guest, and friend Michelle Spieler is Hollywood makeup veteran and a true expert on all things beauty, skincare and health. We’ll go through 5 practical steps every woman can take in order to maintain their looks, even if midlife slowly but surely sets in. We also have loads of fun, talking about plenty of subjects from skincare regime, hydration, skin glow, our new passion for TikTok for the over 30 crowd!


You can connect with Michelle either on her website michellespieler.com or on her Instagram @michellemspieler and you absolutely MUST check out her TikTok @cleanbeautybabe


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Products/ Websites Mentioned:

-Touch in Sol: Pretty Filter Glassy Skin Balm: https://touchinsol-us.com/products/pretty-filter-glassy-skin-balm -Lisa Eldridge https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFghPtzFcmyDiID1ASMA4Dg -@Cleanbeautybabe on TikTok


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EPISODE TRANSCRIPT

Doryn Wallach:

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I am so excited about my guest today because not only is she a very good friend of mine, I have known her for many, many years. I'm so inspired by her daily. Michelle Spieler is not only a ridiculously talented makeup artist who has worked in both film, TV, and commercial, and print, she has started this, in my opinion, much needed social media following for women in their 40s and 50s. So Michelle is 53. She looks amazing. She's gorgeous. She has amazing beauty tips, hair tips, health tips, exercise tips. If you go to her Instagram, you'll fall in love with her. She's now on TikTok, which we're going to talk about in a second because I have also kind of joined TikTok and in my last episode, I said I never would do it.


Anyway, we are going to talk today all about beauty, but not just makeup. We're going to talk about your skin and we're going to talk about beauty within and how we can take care of ourselves as we're going on our next chapter of our lives in our 40s. Because I think I am noticing, for the first time at 43, that things are changing and it's changing with every year. I've been blessed most of my life with good skin, but I'm starting to see some major differences and that's life. So I would love to introduce my beautiful and wonderful friend, Michelle Spieler. Hi, Michelle.


Michelle Spieler:

Wow. Hi, Doryn. What a great introduction. I don't feel worthy. But I would like to say that I've seen your skin in person. It is absolutely gorgeous and what I wouldn't give to be 43 again, but here we are.


Doryn Wallach:

I hear you. I always know you're exactly 10 years older than me and our birthdays are right around the same exact time.


Michelle Spieler:

Yes.


Doryn Wallach:

So I'm going to tell you how I met Michelle. So first of all, let me preface this with I have been obsessed with makeup and hair since I was a little kid. If you asked me at seven years old what do you want to be, it was a hair stylist. I would make over friends. They would come over. I'd take the girl in school who maybe wasn't that popular and kids were kind of mean, and I'd make it my project to bring her home and change her wardrobe, hair, and makeup. She'd go back to school and everyone would be like, "Oh, my God." Even as I got older, I would blow dry friends' hair and whatever. It helps that my mom was very into beauty and has taught me a lot. But while I've done a lot of different things, mostly interior design, but as I've mentioned in my podcast in the past, I've done a lot because I just can't make up my mind and I just like doing so many different things.

So I worked briefly, only about four or five episodes, on the show Extreme Makeover: Home Edition. I think this was back in 2004, 2005. Is that right, Michelle?


Michelle Spieler:

I'm thinking '04. Yeah.


Doryn Wallach:

Yeah. So Michelle was the makeup artist in the trailer and I was the... I don't even know what I was. PA, whatever. Design. My title was Assistant Design Producer. I don't know what that means. Well, I actually loved working on that show. It was one of the most memorable times in my life and I just thought it was so much fun. But I used to hang out in the trailer, which I probably shouldn't have, with Michelle talking about makeup and watching her do makeup. I think even once I did makeup on one of the cast members when you couldn't do it or something. I don't remember.


Michelle Spieler:

Yeah. I got deathly ill and [Noralynn 00:06:25] and you, I think, did Preston.


Doryn Wallach:

Yes, I did, and I'd never put makeup on a man before in my life. So that was interesting. I think I did okay. I don't really remember.


Michelle Spieler:

Yeah, I'm sure you did.


Doryn Wallach:

But just to follow with this, so anyway, we were chatting and chatting and just became fast friends and have kept in touch ever since. Michelle has moved from LA to North Carolina, so I haven't seen you in so long. Then just to also give a little bit of my background, which Michelle knows, a few years ago when I had a podcast and a blog in 2005, Michelle was one of my first guests on that podcast, which is crazy. Remember that? On Doryn's Dish?


Michelle Spieler:

Yeah, I do, I do. I loved it. We even did one with your mom.


Doryn Wallach:

Oh, that's right.


Michelle Spieler:

We did two. We did one-


Doryn Wallach:

Which by the way, I am going to do a podcast with my mom again because I think it will be really popular.


Michelle Spieler:

I think the whole world needs to hear from Arlene.


Doryn Wallach:

I agree, I agree. We're going to do it. We're going to do it. Then just to give you a little bit about my background, so I had moved to London for a couple years and my husband was working and I couldn't get a work visa. I kind of felt judged by my family with the idea of ever going into makeup or hair. When I was younger, I cared more about things like that. I was like, "You know what? I'm all the way in Europe. I'm going to take makeup and hair classes," so I did a four month intensive makeup and hair. I did movie makeup, I did bridal, regular every day makeup, face painting, and hair styling. I loved it. It was so much fun. I even did the Queen's cousin's makeup.

Then I started a beauty blog after that, just writing about my favorite products. Because as I've posted in my Instagram feed a few times, when I like a product, I'll post it and I've done it on my Instagram. I still love doing it. I love trialing products. By the way, Michelle, my 13 year old is now doing this. She's obsessed with skincare. She always wants new products. She's like, "I just like testing them." It's really funny. Where did you come from?


Michelle Spieler:

Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord.


Doryn Wallach:

Yeah. That's a-


Michelle Spieler:

Generational.


Doryn Wallach:

I know, totally. So with all of that, we are going to get started and have a chat because Michelle has so much to add and you guys, you're going to follow her forever after this. I promise you.


Michelle Spieler:

I think that we have to definitely blame our moms because I grew up with a very glamorous mom. She wore lashes every day of her life. She looked like Barbara Eden from I Dream of Jeannie. Everywhere we went, people turned and looked at her. So I got into that whole makeup and hair and skincare at a very, very young age myself. Now, I have passed that onto Gracie. She's just like Tatum and she absolutely loves skincare and natural makeup. She is not all about that heavy Instagram look, but she loves Millie Bobbie and the Florence line and Goop.


Doryn Wallach:

Tatum too. Our daughters are the same age too.


Michelle Spieler:

They are. They are. We got to get them together someday.


Doryn Wallach:

Oh, yeah. Tatum's turning 13 next week. It's crazy. So my mother, and if you're ever interested in my mother, I have an Instagram for her, mymomarlene. I don't post all the time, but she is a character and she's wonderful and glamorous and beautiful. She wears a lot more makeup than I'll ever wear, but my whole life, people would stop her and be like, "Your makeup's so beautiful. You do such a good job. Are you a makeup artist?" She would always do my makeup and did it really well for prom or whatever. But my mom's skincare routine is two hours in the morning and two hours at night, which I will never, ever have the patience for.


Michelle Spieler:

It's definitely a sport for Arlene. She's just funny. She's just naturally funny.


Doryn Wallach:

Right. She is naturally funny. So we both agree in our 40s and 50s that it's not... I do want to get into makeup because I have a lot of questions for you Michelle and I think other women do too. But what you're doing right now, which is so wonderful, is that when we get older, our skin and our hair and our nails is from within. We can't just be as careless as we were in our 20s and 30s. I'd love you to talk a little bit about some... I guess starting with health and things that you think should be included in our lives for the exterior as well as skincare.


Michelle Spieler:

Yeah. Well, when you approached me about the show, I think just to keep it concise for the audience, I think we both really loved the top five tips for looking younger. Definitely one and two are very important, have nothing to do with makeup. But I would say that number one is to get yourself on a good skincare regime. I don't care what that is as long as it is a daily, regular skincare regime. People will often tell me, "Oh, my gosh, I can't believe you're 53. You look so good. What's your secret?" I used to always say, "It's just DNA." But I thought, "You know what? No, I'm downplaying all the hard work that I've put in for 40-some odd years." I literally started using Oil of Olay every night of my life when I was very, very young. Like 13, 14. Then I started religiously wearing SPF when I was maybe 20 years old. I stopped tanning my face at 20. I wish I had stopped tanning my neck and hands, but that's a story for another time.


Doryn Wallach:

My hands. My hands are so bad. It's terrible.


Michelle Spieler:

Wait until you're in your 50s. Then another thing is that I washed my face every single night of my life. Even I'd come home from clubbing or college parties and I wouldn't remember the night before, but I would wake up with a squeaky clean face. So I have been putting these regimes and practices into my daily life for a very, very long time, but it's never too late. I don't want to say, "Oh, you're 45 and you've never taken your skin seriously? Well, you're screwed," because you can always start right now and it does make a big difference to wash your face every day, tone your face, do a moisturizer. I think most dermatologists would agree that a vitamin C serum is so crucial for daytime and at nighttime, use a retinol product or a retinol alternative product. These are great anti-aging skincare products that really, really do improve skin texture and clarity, and give you that glow. Who doesn't want that at any age?


Doryn Wallach:

Exactly. I'm going to tell you, I've been wearing eye cream since I was 16, but-


Michelle Spieler:

Amen.


Doryn Wallach:

... I never washed my face after going out until probably my 30s at some point. I'd just go to sleep with makeup on.


Michelle Spieler:

You know what? You're not alone. It's good to talk about this so that nobody feels shamed. When I talk about that, I'm not trying to be holier than thou. I'm just stating the fact that I've taken my skin very, very seriously from a young age. I tell women if you really are too tired at night to go and wash your face, which takes a whole one minute, then keep makeup wipes on your nightstand and at least you can take off makeup while you're lying in bed. It's not as good as washing, but it's better than nothing.


Doryn Wallach:

Well, I just want to go back to what you said about... So you're 53 now. Regarding skincare, you said you wish that you had put sunscreen on your neck and hands. So in addition to that, a) how often, b) is there anything else in your early 40s or your late 30s that you wish you did more of?


Michelle Spieler:

Yeah, I really, truly wish that I had been drinking more water all along. That's point number two I'll get to in a minute. But I have worn SPF almost every day of my life since probably 1990 when they started putting a 15 in makeup and skincare. I never covered my neck and my hands and my chest. Now, when I look at it, my chest has definite sun damage. My neck, I'm getting the turkey neck at 53. I'd love to get my neck done someday, but it's not in the budget right now. My hands just look so old. It's because of all the intermittent driving and exposure in Southern California, right?


Doryn Wallach:

My mom tells me to keep sunblock in the car and put it on every time you're driving. She's told me that my whole life. I don't do it. But who even thinks about that? Well, you also get, even dead of winter, sun rays are coming into your car.


Michelle Spieler:

I know. So that's my advice to anyone, 30s or early 40s right now, is please start putting that sunscreen on your neck and hands because just the skin on your chest is so thin and it just starts to look really bad as you get older.


Doryn Wallach:

I was on, and I will never go on another one again, my brother sent us on a cruise for Mother's Day. I'll never forget being outside putting on sunblock and my mom looks to me and said, "Did you skip your decollete? Dude, that is the first part of your body to start aging. If you don't start covering that with sunblock now every single day, you are going to see later on how bad that looks."


Michelle Spieler:

Oh, Lord. I love her. She's absolutely right.


Doryn Wallach:

So I have always been crazy about putting block there. If there's one place I'm going, it's there.